Saturday 29 March 2014

A bookmark a week #1 Map of Tasmania

I have so many bookmarks saved on my phone. Every time I see a cool recipe or tip or anything really, I save it down. I'm particularly guilty of keeping recipes on there, despite my friend giving me this beautiful book to write them in a few years ago.



The problem is there are so many that I can never find what I want. So I've set myself a project.

Each week I'm going to take a bookmark on my phone and do something with it. 

If it's a recipe I've made and I like it, I'll copy it into my beautiful book. If I haven't made it before I'll give it a go and copy it in if I like it. Anything else, I'll make it up as I go along.

Then I'll delete them. Bold, eh?

Needless to say, I'll inevitably add new bookmarks as I go along, but they can just be added to the project. I can't keep my whole life on my phone (can I? Don't we all?).

So this week, I chose this.


We saw Amanda Palmer on her tour last year and, while in many ways she's flawed, I respect what she's trying to do and I don't think she's calculated, just privileged (aren't we all?)

Turns out I can't use this link anymore, but I do have a tabs app on my phone, Ultimate Guitar, and they have a version I can use. I'll learn it on my lovely little uke this week and record it at the end of the week to prove I dunnit! Exciting, no? 

By the way, if you want to use Ultimate Guitar, here's the link


I really like it and find it super easy to use. It lets me transpose songs into keys so easy that even I can play them!

I'll follow up in a week with my recording as promised.

Love and kisses,

H.

Concrete Cow 14 - By Ben and Helen

So this weekend was Concrete Cow 14 - a small one day RPG convention on the outskirts of Milton Keynes. I'd booked the time off work as part of my birthday treat and basing ourselves in Aylesbury with H's mum we headed over to Wolverton first thing on Saturday morning.

This year they were trying something new with the sign-ups - collecting them all in and putting them out at 0930. Personally I liked this, however I was running first slot, so didn't need to join the rush for that game, therefore I was able to sign H and myself up to James' Blood and Water game in the afternoon slot. The evening was looking very bare at this time, so we left it and hoped things would improve.

Slot 1:

Ben - I ran The One Ring, taking my 'Strangers in the Night' scenario out for it's 5th convention outing (I think). This is actually less a scenario and more of an adventure hook - I've got the opening set-up prepped and a couple of encounters ready - other than that I go along with the players and react to what they do. This suits my more Indie playstyle of recent days, and works well for me. I use the characters from my ongoing G+ campaign and am lucky enough that one of my players has done character art for all four characters - as seen below.



The session seemed to go well, with some interesting tactics thought up for dealing with the Cave troll the Fellowship faced, involving shifting the canopy somewhat to let the sunlight through.

It was mentioned by one of the players afterwards that TOR would make a good 3-4 slot mini-campaign for a convention - so I'm starting to look at doing this for Conception next year.

H was still playing when this had finished  so I went to the stores to spend my birthday money - I got everything I could have wanted, and spent less than I'd allowed myself - so double win. From Leisure Games I picked up The Primeval Companion, Perfect Unrevised, Forsooth and Beat to Quarters. From all rolled up I got myself and Helen one of their dice/roll up things each.

 

     




Helen - I played in Mik Reed's game of The Tavern. I'd wanted to play this for a while so was really pleased to get in on a game, particularly with Mik, always fun! It was pretty cool, dealing with the small events in the tavern/restaurant/diner/bar we really got an idea of who the characters were, even when they only appeared for 1 scene, and the cards, food and characters all reflecting each other was neat, made it easy to picture the characters. Lovely gentle game for the morning.

Slot 2: - We both played in James Mullen's Blood and Water game - thoughts below. Blood and Water is kind of Being Human the RPG, with a disparate bunch of supernatural housemates trying to make their way in the mortal world. Our set of 4 housemates was a Skinwalker, A fallen Lucifer, an 8 year old child turned into a (Chucky-esque) Garden Gnome and my Australian Were-Kangaroo.

Ben - I thoroughly enjoyed this session, but made the mistake of creating a character who was going to be a layabout a lot of the time. This meant it took me longer to get into the action - however once I did all was good, and I felt we made a fun, sinister and fairly silly at times story out of our mixed housemates.

Helen - a game with Ben, Mik and Steve run by James? Predictably super-fun. I got to explore my diseased imagination and discovered an awesome creepy giggle to freak Ben out with.

Slot 3: - We checked out the games for the evening slot, and being as there were very few up discussed heading back to Aylesbury early, however Toad stepped up and offered a game of Dead of Night, so we joined this and got a third game each.

Ben - I played a high school quarterback, turned mechanic with the flaws of 'Leap before he looks' and 'Never Backs Down'. This inevitability led to my character dying, but I was throwing around my survival points like there was no tomorrow and got to go out in a blaze of glory - literally, I set myself on fire and charged the evil tree that was casting a shadow over our small American town. I had great fun with this game, so many thanks to Toad for stepping up and running it.

Helen - I enjoyed this too, good game, great GM and awesome players. I liked my character, standard vain blonde horror film fodder, but I painted myself into a corner a bit so couldn't do much to progress the story. I did enjoy providing a bit of colour obsessing over the leather-clad, motorcycling loner though...

Once more I had a great day, the only thing was the lack of games in the late slot - this did get sorted in the end. Normally I'd have offered something myself, however I'd promised myself only one game ran and two played this year - and, unusually for me, I had nothing in my bag or the car to offer. Next Cow I'll probably run two slots again - one of these as the evening slot.

Keep gaming

Ben & Helen

One small step for fatkind

So today Ben and I went shopping, and I wore this.

Not the most exciting of outfits, I know. The skirt is bright, but mostly I'm wearing it because it's long 
and I feel the need to cover up as much as possible. See, I'm fat and according to society at large that's not ok. I'm not here to get into a debate about the health issue, however I would say that, if it's better to be thinner healthwise, I'm pretty sure making me feel terrible about myself isn't the answer to helping me get the weight off. Also, most diets don't work long term so I'm not going to try a health intervention that's been shown not to work. 

Right, now that's off my chest we can proceed. 

I like to walk. I love being out in the world (apart from being around people who shout abuse at me, doesn't happen too regularly, but enough to make me wary of groups of young men and kids), walking makes me feel strong and it helps my historic back and shoulder problems. However, I live in England so a lot of the time I'm walking in rain. As I'm sure you can imagine, my preferred uniform of long skirts and flared trousers is a bit of a pain in these circumstances as they soak up the groundwater and deposit it on my shoes, so even waterproof shoes have issues, particularly lace-ups.

Now I love the way I look in leggings, but I appreciate that not everyone in the world will. I'd love to go out in them and a long top but I'm just not that brave yet. So I thought maybe a short dress....?

I tried to go to evans to look for one, but the store listed on the website no longer existed, so.... great work there evans. 

This is me giving evans the side-eye


Given that I'm already limited in where I can shop this was a blow that I could have done without.

Luckily there was an asda across the way so I decided to give that a try. I got 2 dresses, and I'm currently trying to build up the courage to wear them out of the house. 





I think they'll be great in a spring shower and I can pair them with my lovely new pink crocs (judge me as much as you like, I bloody love them!).




Let me know what you think, is it ok to wear a short dress so I ca walk more easily? If not, why not? I'm intellectually convinced it is, but somehow I'm still scared to do it.

Love and kisses,

H.

Friday 7 March 2014

I have a problem....

I should not be allowed in Boots. This lunchtime, I thought I'd pop in there for some nail polish (real essential stuff) and ended up leaving with 3, yes 3, different toners (and some nail polish).

It wasn't too long ago that I had completely written off toners as a pointless waste of time and money, particularly as I clean my face with wash off cleansers and a flannel so I don't need to take off any heavy cleanser. Then I discovered the sainted Caroline Hirons and the 'exfoliating toner' and now I'm addicted. Call me tragic, but I love an extra skincare step, as I get older I enjoy the ritual of washing my face, wiping a toner over, patting a serum in, massaging in moisturiser etc etc. Even if it has no tangible effect, I enjoy it. It's soothing.

So last year I started using Ren's Clarifying Toning Lotion http://www.renskincare.com/p/3393?gclid=CIT-1Z_dgb0CFWXnwgodzzUANw

I adore it, but that hasn't stopped me wanting to find some cheaper products that might also work for different things. For example I also use Alpha H Liquid Gold http://www.cultbeauty.co.uk/alpha-h-liquid-gold-night-treatment-serum.html?gclid=CL-8vOjcgb0CFerpwgod62cAOw sometimes and I don't like to use the exfoliating toner the next day as my skin gets a bit red and sore, so a gentler alternative would be great. And that's how this happened.



Firstly, I just liked the sound of the old fashioned toner with glycerin and rosewater for exactly the reason stated above. It should be gentler on my skin when I'm a bit fragile. The skinclear stuff I wanted as sometimes I do get frustrated with my mahoosive pores and why not try something new? I will only be using this on selected areas and not every day by any means. Lastly, I couldn't turn down a toning mist. It's super-refreshing and when I go to festivals in the summer (I go to super-hip folk festivals full of old folks) I can use it to cool myself off if the Morris dancing gets too exciting... I should note that, while I have open pores and combination skin, I'm lucky in that I rarely get terrible breakouts and my skin recovers well when I abuse it. Disclaimer over.

I'm super-stoked to try these out and can hopefully report back on how effective they are! 

Love and kisses,

H.